Someone looking for an exceptional spa experience can surely find it in Havre de Grace at Par Excellence Day Spa. The spa's name, translating from French to mean "above all," seems quite appropriate when the customer steps through the door. It transitions from a busy outside world, through a soothing gateway to ultimate relaxation that includes the wafting aroma of lavender as well as a complimentary cup of Thai tea. Owner, Rosemarie Miller, is not only a master of the pampering session, but also a licensed electrologist and a licensed esthetician.